thought catalog is really a good place to set your mind thinking.
really much food for thought.
so i'm gonna leave a few links here, for my own reference and for my readers (whoever yall are the minimal people) if yall wanna set your minds thinking about some stuff (:
some other links from other webs tho.

http://thoughtcatalog.com/nikki-garcia/2013/04/how-you-know-when-someone-cares/#AXbPFB2yuOQscph3.01

http://www.marcandangel.com/2012/02/08/12-relationship-truths-we-often-forget/

http://thoughtcatalog.com/sarah-mccartan/2013/12/its-okay-to-quit/

http://thoughtcatalog.com/evelina-miropolsky/2013/12/15-simple-ways-to-take-care-of-yourself-when-life-gets-crazy/